Time is the essence of everything..

Well! its been long time since i have written anything but may be the right time now that ive to put my feelings to words… 

I always wondered since childhood if i’ve asked anything to my dad be it any thing which he was not able to afford at that point of time he always replied me saying there is time for everything son!! but i always cried thinking this is the same answer i received from him whenever i ask anything… Not that i was matured enough to understand that he was always right…

Speaking of instances where the whole point of writing this:   being born in a middle class family you always dream of living the other’s better lives.. having the things which other kids have the privelege to enjoy because you and them are not the same… Since childhood you are always taught there is time for everything and i wondered that moment never arrives for me… From having learnt cycling from my dad’s second hand Hero Cycle to riding a Honda Sports Bike, feeling disheartened as other children are travelling on bikes and am stilling riding my Atlas cycle.. Yes! time do change…

From a kid who was not allowed to touch an Apple iphone as other college mates describing me “ Apne aukat dekho pehle iphone tumhara jaise logon k liye nahi hai” to owning an Apple iphone yes! time do change…

From a kid requesting for a small digital camera from relatives to capture moments in college and hearing from them that you cannot  use these as your dad cannot afford these to someone who owns a Sony camera yes! time do change…..

From someone who just dreamt of having a shower in bathroom whenever we shifted from one house to other to someone who owns a 2bhk apartment  in Hyderabad.. little that i know that god’s plan is that my first experience of having a shower bath would be in my own apartment as till this time i did not have a bathroom with a shower in it… Hahahah yes! time do change…

You might be wondering whatever this guy is speaking about all these are materialistic things but do not have so much importance… For a guy born in a typical middle class family these things are his most luxurious after making sure he could be the one who brings the change in the family and support parents to live life which they could’ve only dreamt off…

Thank you 

       Pavan☺️

Is Cricket just a sport? In my words...

 I know this just sounds crazy if someone asks you is cricket just a sport then many of us say its more than just an emotion..and for someone who started learning the game in the early 2000's, who was a kid who watched the 2003 world cup in neighbour's home, from coming back early from school and praying for india to win the 2007 world cup against pakistan, whose xth standard board exams were on the line during the 2011 world cup.. from turning off the TV when sachin got out and celebrated the victory with ravishastri's commentary than an MS Dhoni's six.. I came a long way in understanding the game...The emotion as a cricket fan you go through the superstitious belief you have not moving an inch from your seat we all have during a cricket match just tells the beauty of sport.. Now when your'e in late 20's and just understand it's never been easy for someone to make it to the playing 11, criticizing them for their performances i as a cricket fan have come a long way...For me cricket has always taught when to make right decisions whether its in your professional career, never back yourself, always fight for what you deserve....May not be one of those deserving cricketers to have played the game but always giving 100% on and off the filed and having the courage to fight till the end cricket has always been more than just a sport....

                                                                           Thank you😃

What if your life was a balance sheet?

 First, let me tell you what this balance sheet is..its a statement which tallies a business's assests and liabilities (i.e) at the end of day it must be balanced..So, one might think why am i even comparing something related to a business with our life.. The first question which arises in my mind is Life and asset or a liability.. what do you think?Firstly talking about assests (the positives😁) your family, children, friends, relationships incase they support you in every aspect, motivate you, be back of you when you need them the most. Surprisingly these turn out to be the liabilities sometimes, and you will need to deduct them in order to be balanced...People throughout their life span spending every minute in building assests (monetary things like land, buildings, shares, investments etc).. forgetting that mental health is also an asset which turns to be a liability in near future... Do you really think these monetary things are your life's greatest assets. Now liabilities what do you think your life's greatest liabilities.. your mental health, day to day problems, sorrows, finding happiness, running after success(until you finally reach there)....your employer😝..Till the business lasts it maintains its book of accounts and somehow tries to equal its assests and liabilities, similarly till the end of our life span we strive for assets, manage our liabilities and ultimately try to balance each and every day of our life.... At the end of the day ultimately your assets and liabilities of life has to be tallied which is why life is called a balance sheet..

THANK YOU ❤️

The Dirty World

 Hey Folks, hope everyone are doing good..Let me guess persons who are currently reading this might be wondering what this guy is actually talking about"The Dirty World" hahahah😀 you will slowly get to know down the lines why the title is actually apt... These lines are not about people who made it big in their professional careers in the corporate but of those people who never found it easy or never knew how to make things go their way... A fresh graduate out of the college with many hopes and dreams entering to a corporate world does not actually know how dirty it is.. let me give you examples that I have seen in my 4.5 years of experience.. This world has the large number of fake smiles, fake relationships..you can call corporate relationships for benefits truee yeah! A friend who dumps the other friend, a senior management head who was thrown out of his position because of favouritism, an associate level employee who was given PIP (Performance improvement plan) and thrown out of the corporate because he complained his problems to his superior, a superior who only can see through knees, a superior who stops the associate to promote to next level because he asked him the questions which he doesn't have the answer for, people who lick other's feet and praise them each and every time and so on... Everytime there's a conversation in this regards they are never ending as they say and true it is..This world shows you people wearing holi colours everytime on their face but the colour is'nt visible..Even out of all these there are people whom I admire and very lucky that I've worked with them, they showed me the way, motivated me, supporting me everytime till the time I was there with them..For me i have seen two leaders and I admire them the most.. One whom I never worked under but watched closely their growth, commitment and the zeal to get that position where time was never a constraint..you will not believe if I say that their resume says available to work on any day, any time of the week and he/she is now holding a senior team lead operations position in reputed companies of US mortgage👏👏 and the other whom I actually worked under from whom I never wanted to learn anything from them the reason being it's good sometimes not to learn anything as well🤣😜..and last but not the least a company never supports an employee except their clients....I have a question that runs in my mind everytime that when the hierarchy leaves the work on time why not a junior level employee???? may be that is why Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam sir said"Love your job but not company"..May be manifestation is the right to use here even your Instagram reels suggest you the dirtiest ways of corporate politics when you are scrolling through them..Funny😁😁..One thing what I've learnt is that you need to be a smart player to play this game of corporate😎... 

Thank you and don't get serious on me mates it's just my way of understanding things and no complaints..Jai Hind🇮🇳

A Tale of Love Stories (in my terms)

 Firstly, I am not a love guru or someone who has a great knowledge about what is love or had so many love stories to share my experiences...It's just some of those stories which I have come across in my last 12 years....

To start with this story belongs to me. An average looking guy just being in his teens and slowly starting to think about his future goals and ambitions..you got it right it's in my X standard that for the first time I've come across a love letter (Beautifully written in her terms)..Till that day I used to watch love letters only in movies but when I received for the first time I truely have no words..there was anxiety filled with excitement knowing that there is someone who likes you (#Haha🤗)..then I became a hero for my self and in typical hero's language I said "Sorry Sister😎..I am not into this thing and want to focus on my career and dreams..."..Later exactly after 9 years I received the same response from the person whom I loved but this time in Heroin's language...They say what you did to others will come back to you...Karma is a real bitch😔...

The next one is about one of my MBA mates who struggled to pass atleast 1 subject in his semesters have passed a police training examination that too in his first attempt clearing all his exams and physical tests only because his lady love asked him to do so inorder to get married....May be love has the power to do miracles... Congratulations brother on your successful marriage with your loved partner...

Next about all my important friend who tried 1 year almost to stand infront of her...Later made her realise how important she is to him and eventually found her love....When all things were going good and both families accepted for their marriage there comes the real villian in the story..His lady love's brother who promised him that he would make them together has eventually made his sister marry someone else instead of the person whom she loved....Villians do exist and this is not a film it's a true story my dear!💔..

Here comes the final story where they loved each other so truely and eventually got married in a private ceremony.. There was no acceptance from the boy side.. Now this might get emotional but please hang on a bit.. Parents have so many dreams on their children..Some parents really wish their children to achieve what they couldn't achieve because of their own reasons and wish everyday that their child achieves that, plans their future that after their children get settled they would lead a good life which they couldn't for all these years, plans for their marriage et al... (Every parent but for my story I have used the term some)..When such parent listens to a news that his son has married someone without his consent you can literally feel what the parent has gone through... He wanted to commit suicide (the father) when he heard such news.. You can feel the pain being in their shoes...Even after 10 years of marriage the son hasn't slept a single night peacefully.. He himself (the son) went to commit suicide because life became terrible and he wasn't in a position to bear her anymore..He cannot give divorce because she won't let him to do so, he is like a doll in her hands and do all the actions how she want him to do so..Sad scenes...😥

He made his father suffer for his actions (he only lived 8 years and taking rest in heaven and is free from all these) and the son had to suffer for life long from her till his last breath..because he has no other option..

#Love is unpredictable..Sometimes it does good to you and sometimes it does bad..Sometimes it gives you the power to achieve something and sometimes it makes you loose everything...🕺🤷🤩🤯...

My Part Definition for life😉

 All this while for about 25 years I was still in search of that damn thing what makes me feel happy what is that I really wanted to do...What career to choose? Whether you are happy with what you are doing? Is this what you really want? a no.of questions that runs through my mind everyday every minute....and it still continues till my last breathe because humans never gets satisfied with what they have or what they really want and I'm also one of them who keeps searching answers for all my questions daily....Still did not figured out but may be partially until the day when I saw my mom smiling and that's usual because we all see our parents smiling everytime but don't know why but that day it felt something unusual within me and I just thought how beautiful it is to see them laughing everytime...Something really shook me off just seeing them enjoying that very moment and then I understood that there's nothing great in this world than seeing them smiling, making every moment special for them and I felt that was what i really wanted in life may be a kind of a booster and answer for many of my questions.... Might be there are some changes in what i do really in future, no matter what the fuckin world thinks it's always your parents the priority and it's your meaning of birth no matter what you do how you do to make them smiling and enjoying every moment.. My mom always say we should never say thank you to parents but I promise that I won't let you down anytime...Thank you❤️

Unstoppable

 Well to begin with this was the title of one of my colleagues in my new organisation..I am sorry that I have taken your title and used it for my writing today..This one is not about me..This is for all who strives to make big one day..may be some have already made it and others on the verge of making it..Let me give an example of my self. My father did not have any money and his family condition was in such a state that they were not able to make their ends meet..He did not study but have always told me and my sister that if he could have he would become a government employee..Me and my sister used to laugh why he is talking all this rubbish because in our generation because of high competition getting a government job is not that easy..But whatever we do he always asks only one thing from us that he wants us both to be working for a government organisation..May be he could have chose his son to become a tailor as he is..and as advised by people but there was only one word that came from his mouth "The way I suffered I don't want my children to be suffering the same".I really did not understand why he spending so much amounts for his children's studies even though when he knows that he cannot afford their studies...I keep questioning my self the same everytime..but I don't have an answer to this..May be the trust that he has in children that one day they will achieve what he could not achieve in his life..Truely speaking it took him more than 10 years to learn tailoring..may be I could have completed my 10 years of education by the time he learnt his work..He did not have proper food, proper clothes, proper home to live.. but he never gave up..If I am standing infront of you today that's all because of him..but his dream is yet to be fulfilled...That was just an example because there are many people who are unstoppable in their own ways some may be in studies, some in sports and some in other.. I was always thinking why I am getting such bosses and Team leads everywhere i goo..be it whatever they think of you no matter what they say you always keep a belief that you are "UNSTOPPABLE"..because one can only stop if one decides and not when other's decide......

              Dedicated to all the Unstoppable's who are going to reach their destinations very soon including me😁....

A Movie lover

 Don't get me wrong by seeing the title...I am not a movie reviewer or someone who is looking for making a career in Movies....It's just that I wanted to share my views about how a 1 or 2.30 hours of movie play an important role in your life....The feeling is just nostalgic... From a person who used to watch a movie atleast once in a year to a person who's willing to spend his time watching a movie I have come a long way...This sounds crazy if i tell I used to watch atleast 2 movies in my 9 hours of office time in my previous organization during WFH😄😬.... All thanks to my buddy who suggested me to watch movies thereby creating more anxiety in me to watch those by explaining the summary of the movie😜..Then there is movie for any situation in your life according to your mood or situation....The genre, language, cast doesn't matter as long as you enjoy the whole time watching themm.. Some have really bought a lot of changes in me personally and I figured out that there are many people who also have experienced the same like the way I feel today...People would always tell to watch this...that etccc etc ...... I never thought someone's words would have such great influence in me that I had bought my self a Netflix account just to watch a movie which I've never done before....Such was that impact on mee which made me ask them to suggest movies😉.....One last thing I can tell whole heartedly is that a right movie at a right time changes everythinggg....

                      Thank you all the directors for bringing your thoughts into movies and inspiring us....

                                From one of your many movie lovers❤️

      

Frienship n Memories😃

 Well its been long time writing something and today this would be something…reliving those beautiful memories….

Dont you laugh if this is from someone who doesnt know what actually friendship is how that relation would actually be…. 25 years and if i look back it is always me alone in my whole world…… May be its because of my regulations at home that they never liked me to have friends or never allowed me so..

But there s always a time who you would require in your life to share your feelings thoughhh.. Then you actually find those who would readily accept your friendship and you become so close that you feel like sharing everything with themmm….

I always had a very negative opinion abt relationships in corporate be it because of people or the dirty politics that you find everywhere in that world….Untill i found someone whom i used to call sis (in corporate) may be because i respect her so much that i call her my sis so much that i have learned from her how the corporate life, people would be, do’s, dont’s and she was like a mentor to me and i ve enjoyed every moment of her company😍 may be shz the reason for everything im today with respect to corporate… 

And there you go how can i forget the three muskeeters gang that we are which even the dirty manager of ours is afraid to even raise a question.. hahahaha funny and today even when we have parted our ways to find success in our carrers we still are so close and share all the good and bad that we are going through or gone through.. and others just wanted to join us and be part…

Never imagined that i would quarrel within the organization and end up referring her fo be part of the same organization which im part offf🙆🙆 and feel comfortable within yourself thinking thers someone closer to you whom you can share everything tooo as you are never comfortable to share anything in your organization…..😤

Life is so unpredictable …. You end up being friends with someone whom u never liked but never want to get into any relationship with people close by😬😬….

The ????

The ??? has been following me since my childhood from the moment which school you had to study to what profession you want to choose with respect to your career growth…. and there might not be an end to this..

Never have i had the courage to say No to any of my parents decisions never had they asked me what is that u wish to do in your life…..

26 and still does not know what is best that you can achieve and count on it for years is still to be realized, makes me feel pity about what im today.

Do you really think achieving your oarent’s dream is your ultimate goal and which encourages you in the years passing by

i heard life throws u different challenges and tests and your patience and see how strong you can withstand those challenges would be your greatest achievement…. True, but not in everything.. U cannot test the person in every aspect of his life and test him and simply laugh at his failures…

Is it something really what u ve wished for ??? when this arises in mind u start fighting internally within yourself to find out what suits your best and what makes one happy as a person… When u start doing something not because you wanna do it but for sake of the responsibilities you have that even hurts the most…….

People really made it big …Everyone whom i ve been knowing since childhood have made it big and are achievers and here im still finding out the ultimate thing what i really wanna do in life.. 

 As one of my favourite person quotes”Find your own answers” well i have been doing that but ive always come last in finding it sooo….. Signing offf..

                           Pavan.

The very Moments for lifetime..

 I was returning back from my trip to Hyderabad and received a call from my colleagues saying people are being moved to DLF as there was no requirement of more people in the process….

I was afraid that I could not see her again 😭 if it was my turn the next time………I would be ridiculous if I say that I wanted to stay in the company and the very building so that I can atleast see her from a distance and 5 minutes felt like many hours….Never a moment I thought about whats next for me in my career and it was her for which I wanted to stay not the company but the building….

Leaving the company was always the first choice but I could nt do soo….. Prayed god to let me stay in the very building no matter what the project I was tagged tooooo…..

May be god was by my side and listened to my prayers and let me stay in the very building…

As the days passed I so show wanted to talk to her but the fear in me never allowed me to do soo...I was afraid how she would react talking to an unknown person after all..The one thing that I always remembered was she describing me by her words "I don't know you".....

But finally an attempt was made but that too went against mee…. Can't complain as people these days are so fast that they just go to her(someone they wished to talk) but I never had the guts to do so……

Feeling was that in my lifetime I wld never be able to talk to her and that feeling really hurts and I regret the fact that being in 21st century I could still not able to make an attempt to talk to her…..

After months I was finally able to text her and the biggest thing is that I started receiving replies from her. And that is it the wish finally came true and finally started talking to her and that was enough for the life and can live with those memories for the lifetime……..

Slowly there was some other woman who started liking me, she got to know me but I was not in a position to accept her as she (some one I love) was always der and would be for lifetime….

When slowly things got better and I started knowing her more better I realised she is the most wonderful person by heart and want to ask her if she would be my partner for life guide and support me as she does……..

When I look back at those inferences I realised that I am the most unluckiest person in this world to not have got her but she live the life with the right person who truly deserves for her love and is happy in every moment of her life…….

The relationships

 Let me start asking myself and to the reader reading this "Does true relationship really exists?" Or its kind of an act between people to be benefitted from each other….

I am writing this taking inferences from different things which I've come across… and not to criticize any one….

Is there a true relationship between a brother and sister or a brother to brother...I say No… all the that really exists is money...Sorry to say but this is true people only respect you if ure good enough in terms of wealth, respect you, talk to you etc…..

Is there a true relationship between a child and parents….Do you really think ???..Seeing all the recent changes in the society…

Is there love between two people who say or update their status as in relationship?? If yes, why do they actually breakup and marry the other person as if there's nothing between the two...What do you mean love ???

Is the relationship between two friends is really the same everytime..??  Or do you think it's just a matter of time….

Last and greatest of all there is never or shouldn't be a good relationship between an employer and employee...but I say there are certain advantages but also there are certain disadvantages when it comes to these relationships.

A sister never respects her brother if she doesn't except anything in return from him?? A brother always thinks to downgrade his brother in front of his children… 

Sorry, but the brother and sister scenario is the real truth that happend to my father in recent times...After all what my dad this to the entire family all these years and still had to listen to such words from his brother or sister...That moment made me realise that the world we live in is a film...People just act all the time but remember there's a time… and everybody has to come out of those characters and show their true colors to people… Never imagined if I were in that position what wld I've done….but hope so such things would never happen and people doo respect their relationships..

What if ..??

 

Well, it's been long time writing something and ideally this one is from my thoughts..

 It always raised a question in my mind What iff ?🤔

What if you can travel back to time as shown in Hollywood movies and relieve those beautiful moments..??

What if you can tell your dad that this is the profession that I would choose to build my career upon..?

What if you can go back to time and say sorry to persons who are hurt because of you ??

What if you accept the girl who is crazy about you at that time and how your life could ve been now ??

What if you have no plans in life and enjoying the moments as they come your way ??

What if the things which your not supposed to be done and actually are done because of which you are worried even these days ??🙄😔

What if you could ve completed the full GTA game ??

What if you never involved anyone to be more important than you in your life ??

What if you could've understood that money is the only mean and relatives visit you only when your wealthy enough??

What if you could ve friends and enjoyed moments with them rather being alone with you for the past 25 years ??

What if you have not met people who are supportive and encouraging in personal and professional life ?

What if you are never heard of your mother saying god provides difficulties to people who does good ??

What if people are more concerned about other's lives rather than theirs ?

What if there is no Caste reservation system ?

What if there is no politics or politicians ? In general and in your corporate life (Note: very important)

What if the rightful people gets the rightful jobs ??

What if the word "Hardwork always pays off" always be true not only for few but those who really work hard ??

Finally, but not the least….

What if I can hit my manager (name not be mentioned) ??

What if ? What if ? What if ???

What if I never had this question what if ??😂😂

HER

 Never thought this would be such painful.I always thought  this would never happen to me but it does...after I fell for someone who eventually made me go crazyy for her…

Never have I had a chance to talk to her, meet her and express my feelings but tried to make courage and tell her even though I know that she would never accept me..All the days I try myself not to look to her social media or get to know things about her but, cannot stop myself from doing Sooooooo…. I'm her good friend although she states that I always had feelings for her from day one…

I keep asking myself what is that which makes you go crazy about her and eventually I end up smiling myself because I have no reasonzz and she had been that special person to me….The best part of her is even when she know I like her she's has never stopped talking to me even when she never liked me……… N i was to a conclusion that it's the end of her in my life but to be true it's never to be...Every time I wish to forget her I end up thinking a lot more about her..

In this fast moving world expressing her your feelings in not a big thing but I never had the courage to do so because the heart always reminded me "Arey Chod-dho yaar yea kabhi nahi ho paayegaaa".................

And today while I write this I'm still thinking of her not that she would accept me but I never had a chance to talk to her…….

And you think why do I write instead making an attempt to talk to her I know something's in life never tend to happen and the best way to express or come out of sorrows is by writing your views in the form of words---- These lines in her words….

What_People really matters...🙆

 

All this while I was thinking does people really matter in your life and does they have any importance in your life. I found that it's actually the people that matters the most…

There are many kinds of people that you come across in your life.Some are really closer to your heart, people who are supportive,encouraging,inspirational,motivational and some who are never fond of you some who always ditches you being behind everytime..

People who are supportive to you in every matter are not easy to find and once found you never want to miss them at any circumstance but there's a time when u need to let them goo..

One gets to learn a lot from others...The most important thing I've learnt is that people are always trying to throw you down but remember those are the positives u can get because ure always trying urself to be better than him and which indeed motivates you to become the very besttt…

There's always one thing my dad always say me "Never compare yourself with people who are better or bigger than u and compare yourself with people who are lower than you"...Might be my father is right because we will be stronger when compared with people who are below than you, but what I think is that when u compare ureself with the best you're always trying to reach them which is not possible by the way butty u're always trying to reach them which is most important…...That makes u even better..

It's always better that u're surrounded by bad people when you are to learn something from them which u doesn't want to do in life… and the ways of doing good are always found…

                      

*The Secret admirer..*

This has been longtime coming and indeed a special one…..

The backdrop of the story happend in one of the corporate offices in Hyderabad.

Well this is a story about a guy who was like crazy about someone whom he saw the very first time.

He doesn't know whether it was like love at first sight or he likes her or he's had crush on her but the moment he saw her he's become a greatest admirer of her.

It was like potrait mode that happens to him and there's no one expect her that he could see..

Haha!! he's got so many of his colleagues whom he could explain everything about what's going on within him and his feelings for her and everybody were supportive to him.some would help him in finding her name too😜.. the craziest thing was he used to go to dinner at the exact time she comes to dinner not that he wld check social apps but the time daily when he used to see her coming to dinner with her colleagues..The only thing that haunted him was how to approach her and start conversation wid her which he knew that would never happen as he never had the courage to do so…

And one day suddenly after finishing his dinner when he n his friend were on a walk he suddenly saw her with her friend and at that moment his heartbeat wasso much faster and he just stopped looking at her...that was the most funniest incident even today when he remembers that one magical moment to demonstrate for him in his life…

And slowly however by god's grace she started talking to him..(Note:Never had been a direct conversation untill now )it's just through social platform that they had their conversations….One thing that guy ever felt was the women like her whom he admired or loved would ever talk to him and even if he approached her to say Hi!! how her reaction would be..and that thing in his mind always stopped him from having one little conversation with her..

And talking about the women shez one beautiful women and has a very unique standards that she sets for herself with always having her head high and the way she presents herself in front of others makes u feel just staring at her the whole day...if not the whole life..This guy used to say me that he just wanted to hear the word Hi..!!from her and that was all he needed from her...It would be stupid if I say that he wanted to stay in that organization na The 🏢 only because he could see her atleast once in a day….Such was his feeling for her…

Well the question is does anyone express their feelings to someone eventhough they know what the reply would be from the other side...But i have an utmost respect towards this guy to express his feelings to her eventhough when he knows she would never accept him…..

Well the final verdict is not every guy is the same..Not everybody just loves someone for sex or appearance..there are even some guys who even fear to approach a girl whom they like or love so much...I don't want to criticize any one but just wanted to tell women that NOT EVERY GUY is the SAME….

Well it might be that people who read this wants the story to end the better way but u never know what "DESTINY HAS IN STORES FOR THE GUY"..

Thank you,

Pavan D.V.N

"BEING ALONE REJOICES"

Let me start like this ..

How many of u like being alone..???

Not  many wants to be….but the reality is there's a moment in one's life where everybody feels that it is rather important to be alone than being engaged yourself in the most complicated relationships in life…….

Being in other's company always compromises you and end up doing things what others have wished for and not what you ve really wished for….

Being alone here does not mean sitting in the dark empty room crying,not speaking to others or thinking about all that has happend in your life till now..

It means to be *Being with oneself* and enjoying their own company..

"It's rather important to enjoy your own company than enjoyin the company of others"

It is..!!when you start realising that you are most important to you and start seeing life in a beautiful way and start enjoyin it  in your very way…

When you start to enjoy being alone, you’ll gain a greater perspective for your own emotions. You’ll create a deeper understanding of what makes you happy, what upsets you, and what saddens you..

I believe "Time spent alone" is the most valuable time in one's life which helps you in being more productive and focus on doing things which makes your soul happy…

"Some one to hold...."

It's been long time since I have written something and hope you  like it...

Let me start like this I was watching this movie"A beautiful mind" where the protagonist after spending hours of time in research and solving codes and finding different theories fall sick in kind a way where he imagines people who aren't really existed..

It was his wife who helped him and made him believe that he eventually can come out of that sickness and then he would be a normal man again which eventually lead him for noble prize winner..

Now the point I want to make here is there's always someone to hold your hand (#Supportive) when you are going through the difficult phases of life..It might be your parents,a friend, your girlfriend, boyfriend and even sometimes a stranger….It's like someone is waiting for the opportunity to help you..it kind of feels crazy but in reality it is..No matter what relation you hold with the other person when u feel that I can share my feelings and phases which I have gone through that's when you feel "yeah there's someone to hold!!" Which by the way makes you feel happy 😊 and lead to positive actions which indeed leads you to glory..

                                

                                        Thanks..

                                               Pavan.DVN

            

That feeling of Lost...

This is what my next writing is all about ..... "That feeling of being lost"

Well life's a very strange one.You get to meet people who once become very close to you , be with you and all of a sudden let you goo...When such people leave you then you kind of feel that it is the end of the world and suddenly starts behaving the way u haven't till now..

Being dejected by someone doesn't mean the end of everything..Be positive and make sure that you are not struck by the incident and move forward in life as there are many opportunities waiting for you to grab..well to be true that moments we spend with them will always strike you and its not an easy thing to let them go off...but how long would you always keep thinking about them...??
There should be an end to it

when you are into someone you always feel kind of to talk with them, be with them but at end of the day remember you are never accepted by them to be travelling along with them ...

There's no such harm when you kind of go crazy about someone and disclosing the fact that you love someone.Accepting and rejecting you is completely their perspective and one need to respect one's opinion..

One should always remember that it's us what matters the most and live life as we always ve wanted to....

Always remember when someone leaves you there is always a chance of someone better coming into your life who further makes your life complete....

                                                                                              Pavan....

Stop caring about what other's think.

I always wanted to write something like this but never found ways to begin..

 To start off we all live in a stupid society where we find restrictions imposed on most of the things..

So i started questioning myself what role does others/society play in one's own  life ..??

But, do you think one should really care about such people??

At instances, people give importance to other's views rather than your's which kind of makes you feel frustrated.

People are always worried about what others think rather than doing what they find best for themselves and finding happiness themselves..

There is always a fear that runs in your mind that if i does something what others think .This kind of thinking always disheartens oneself..

 "you ought to rather do what you really wish for, there is nothing  to do with this fuckin world.."

I every bit of life there is someone involved  who rather supports you in moving forward in life or always strive to bring you down in front of others..Do not  get discouraged by what people does to you but find positives from them.

Do not get demoralized by what people think about you and start living life which u haven't lived  for all these days and changing  yourself  for others because its your life and only you can live the way you want to live..

Do not give room for others in your life.Don't try to live life to impress others....The right people will definitely  meet you when the time comes.Wait for the moment to happen as someday it should  eventually happen.

There's only one life and try to live the way you wished to.Do what moves you and makes you smile and the ''GOOD" always follow you....😍😍