Time is the essence of everything..

Well! its been long time since i have written anything but may be the right time now that ive to put my feelings to words… 

I always wondered since childhood if i’ve asked anything to my dad be it any thing which he was not able to afford at that point of time he always replied me saying there is time for everything son!! but i always cried thinking this is the same answer i received from him whenever i ask anything… Not that i was matured enough to understand that he was always right…

Speaking of instances where the whole point of writing this:   being born in a middle class family you always dream of living the other’s better lives.. having the things which other kids have the privelege to enjoy because you and them are not the same… Since childhood you are always taught there is time for everything and i wondered that moment never arrives for me… From having learnt cycling from my dad’s second hand Hero Cycle to riding a Honda Sports Bike, feeling disheartened as other children are travelling on bikes and am stilling riding my Atlas cycle.. Yes! time do change…

From a kid who was not allowed to touch an Apple iphone as other college mates describing me “ Apne aukat dekho pehle iphone tumhara jaise logon k liye nahi hai” to owning an Apple iphone yes! time do change…

From a kid requesting for a small digital camera from relatives to capture moments in college and hearing from them that you cannot  use these as your dad cannot afford these to someone who owns a Sony camera yes! time do change…..

From someone who just dreamt of having a shower in bathroom whenever we shifted from one house to other to someone who owns a 2bhk apartment  in Hyderabad.. little that i know that god’s plan is that my first experience of having a shower bath would be in my own apartment as till this time i did not have a bathroom with a shower in it… Hahahah yes! time do change…

You might be wondering whatever this guy is speaking about all these are materialistic things but do not have so much importance… For a guy born in a typical middle class family these things are his most luxurious after making sure he could be the one who brings the change in the family and support parents to live life which they could’ve only dreamt off…

Thank you 

       Pavan☺️

Is Cricket just a sport? In my words...

 I know this just sounds crazy if someone asks you is cricket just a sport then many of us say its more than just an emotion..and for someone who started learning the game in the early 2000's, who was a kid who watched the 2003 world cup in neighbour's home, from coming back early from school and praying for india to win the 2007 world cup against pakistan, whose xth standard board exams were on the line during the 2011 world cup.. from turning off the TV when sachin got out and celebrated the victory with ravishastri's commentary than an MS Dhoni's six.. I came a long way in understanding the game...The emotion as a cricket fan you go through the superstitious belief you have not moving an inch from your seat we all have during a cricket match just tells the beauty of sport.. Now when your'e in late 20's and just understand it's never been easy for someone to make it to the playing 11, criticizing them for their performances i as a cricket fan have come a long way...For me cricket has always taught when to make right decisions whether its in your professional career, never back yourself, always fight for what you deserve....May not be one of those deserving cricketers to have played the game but always giving 100% on and off the filed and having the courage to fight till the end cricket has always been more than just a sport....

                                                                           Thank you😃

What if your life was a balance sheet?

 First, let me tell you what this balance sheet is..its a statement which tallies a business's assests and liabilities (i.e) at the end of day it must be balanced..So, one might think why am i even comparing something related to a business with our life.. The first question which arises in my mind is Life and asset or a liability.. what do you think?Firstly talking about assests (the positives😁) your family, children, friends, relationships incase they support you in every aspect, motivate you, be back of you when you need them the most. Surprisingly these turn out to be the liabilities sometimes, and you will need to deduct them in order to be balanced...People throughout their life span spending every minute in building assests (monetary things like land, buildings, shares, investments etc).. forgetting that mental health is also an asset which turns to be a liability in near future... Do you really think these monetary things are your life's greatest assets. Now liabilities what do you think your life's greatest liabilities.. your mental health, day to day problems, sorrows, finding happiness, running after success(until you finally reach there)....your employer😝..Till the business lasts it maintains its book of accounts and somehow tries to equal its assests and liabilities, similarly till the end of our life span we strive for assets, manage our liabilities and ultimately try to balance each and every day of our life.... At the end of the day ultimately your assets and liabilities of life has to be tallied which is why life is called a balance sheet..

THANK YOU ❤️

The Dirty World

 Hey Folks, hope everyone are doing good..Let me guess persons who are currently reading this might be wondering what this guy is actually talking about"The Dirty World" hahahah😀 you will slowly get to know down the lines why the title is actually apt... These lines are not about people who made it big in their professional careers in the corporate but of those people who never found it easy or never knew how to make things go their way... A fresh graduate out of the college with many hopes and dreams entering to a corporate world does not actually know how dirty it is.. let me give you examples that I have seen in my 4.5 years of experience.. This world has the large number of fake smiles, fake relationships..you can call corporate relationships for benefits truee yeah! A friend who dumps the other friend, a senior management head who was thrown out of his position because of favouritism, an associate level employee who was given PIP (Performance improvement plan) and thrown out of the corporate because he complained his problems to his superior, a superior who only can see through knees, a superior who stops the associate to promote to next level because he asked him the questions which he doesn't have the answer for, people who lick other's feet and praise them each and every time and so on... Everytime there's a conversation in this regards they are never ending as they say and true it is..This world shows you people wearing holi colours everytime on their face but the colour is'nt visible..Even out of all these there are people whom I admire and very lucky that I've worked with them, they showed me the way, motivated me, supporting me everytime till the time I was there with them..For me i have seen two leaders and I admire them the most.. One whom I never worked under but watched closely their growth, commitment and the zeal to get that position where time was never a constraint..you will not believe if I say that their resume says available to work on any day, any time of the week and he/she is now holding a senior team lead operations position in reputed companies of US mortgage👏👏 and the other whom I actually worked under from whom I never wanted to learn anything from them the reason being it's good sometimes not to learn anything as well🤣😜..and last but not the least a company never supports an employee except their clients....I have a question that runs in my mind everytime that when the hierarchy leaves the work on time why not a junior level employee???? may be that is why Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam sir said"Love your job but not company"..May be manifestation is the right to use here even your Instagram reels suggest you the dirtiest ways of corporate politics when you are scrolling through them..Funny😁😁..One thing what I've learnt is that you need to be a smart player to play this game of corporate😎... 

Thank you and don't get serious on me mates it's just my way of understanding things and no complaints..Jai Hind🇮🇳

A Tale of Love Stories (in my terms)

 Firstly, I am not a love guru or someone who has a great knowledge about what is love or had so many love stories to share my experiences...It's just some of those stories which I have come across in my last 12 years....

To start with this story belongs to me. An average looking guy just being in his teens and slowly starting to think about his future goals and ambitions..you got it right it's in my X standard that for the first time I've come across a love letter (Beautifully written in her terms)..Till that day I used to watch love letters only in movies but when I received for the first time I truely have no words..there was anxiety filled with excitement knowing that there is someone who likes you (#Haha🤗)..then I became a hero for my self and in typical hero's language I said "Sorry Sister😎..I am not into this thing and want to focus on my career and dreams..."..Later exactly after 9 years I received the same response from the person whom I loved but this time in Heroin's language...They say what you did to others will come back to you...Karma is a real bitch😔...

The next one is about one of my MBA mates who struggled to pass atleast 1 subject in his semesters have passed a police training examination that too in his first attempt clearing all his exams and physical tests only because his lady love asked him to do so inorder to get married....May be love has the power to do miracles... Congratulations brother on your successful marriage with your loved partner...

Next about all my important friend who tried 1 year almost to stand infront of her...Later made her realise how important she is to him and eventually found her love....When all things were going good and both families accepted for their marriage there comes the real villian in the story..His lady love's brother who promised him that he would make them together has eventually made his sister marry someone else instead of the person whom she loved....Villians do exist and this is not a film it's a true story my dear!💔..

Here comes the final story where they loved each other so truely and eventually got married in a private ceremony.. There was no acceptance from the boy side.. Now this might get emotional but please hang on a bit.. Parents have so many dreams on their children..Some parents really wish their children to achieve what they couldn't achieve because of their own reasons and wish everyday that their child achieves that, plans their future that after their children get settled they would lead a good life which they couldn't for all these years, plans for their marriage et al... (Every parent but for my story I have used the term some)..When such parent listens to a news that his son has married someone without his consent you can literally feel what the parent has gone through... He wanted to commit suicide (the father) when he heard such news.. You can feel the pain being in their shoes...Even after 10 years of marriage the son hasn't slept a single night peacefully.. He himself (the son) went to commit suicide because life became terrible and he wasn't in a position to bear her anymore..He cannot give divorce because she won't let him to do so, he is like a doll in her hands and do all the actions how she want him to do so..Sad scenes...😥

He made his father suffer for his actions (he only lived 8 years and taking rest in heaven and is free from all these) and the son had to suffer for life long from her till his last breath..because he has no other option..

#Love is unpredictable..Sometimes it does good to you and sometimes it does bad..Sometimes it gives you the power to achieve something and sometimes it makes you loose everything...🕺🤷🤩🤯...

My Part Definition for life😉

 All this while for about 25 years I was still in search of that damn thing what makes me feel happy what is that I really wanted to do...What career to choose? Whether you are happy with what you are doing? Is this what you really want? a no.of questions that runs through my mind everyday every minute....and it still continues till my last breathe because humans never gets satisfied with what they have or what they really want and I'm also one of them who keeps searching answers for all my questions daily....Still did not figured out but may be partially until the day when I saw my mom smiling and that's usual because we all see our parents smiling everytime but don't know why but that day it felt something unusual within me and I just thought how beautiful it is to see them laughing everytime...Something really shook me off just seeing them enjoying that very moment and then I understood that there's nothing great in this world than seeing them smiling, making every moment special for them and I felt that was what i really wanted in life may be a kind of a booster and answer for many of my questions.... Might be there are some changes in what i do really in future, no matter what the fuckin world thinks it's always your parents the priority and it's your meaning of birth no matter what you do how you do to make them smiling and enjoying every moment.. My mom always say we should never say thank you to parents but I promise that I won't let you down anytime...Thank you❤️

Unstoppable

 Well to begin with this was the title of one of my colleagues in my new organisation..I am sorry that I have taken your title and used it for my writing today..This one is not about me..This is for all who strives to make big one day..may be some have already made it and others on the verge of making it..Let me give an example of my self. My father did not have any money and his family condition was in such a state that they were not able to make their ends meet..He did not study but have always told me and my sister that if he could have he would become a government employee..Me and my sister used to laugh why he is talking all this rubbish because in our generation because of high competition getting a government job is not that easy..But whatever we do he always asks only one thing from us that he wants us both to be working for a government organisation..May be he could have chose his son to become a tailor as he is..and as advised by people but there was only one word that came from his mouth "The way I suffered I don't want my children to be suffering the same".I really did not understand why he spending so much amounts for his children's studies even though when he knows that he cannot afford their studies...I keep questioning my self the same everytime..but I don't have an answer to this..May be the trust that he has in children that one day they will achieve what he could not achieve in his life..Truely speaking it took him more than 10 years to learn tailoring..may be I could have completed my 10 years of education by the time he learnt his work..He did not have proper food, proper clothes, proper home to live.. but he never gave up..If I am standing infront of you today that's all because of him..but his dream is yet to be fulfilled...That was just an example because there are many people who are unstoppable in their own ways some may be in studies, some in sports and some in other.. I was always thinking why I am getting such bosses and Team leads everywhere i goo..be it whatever they think of you no matter what they say you always keep a belief that you are "UNSTOPPABLE"..because one can only stop if one decides and not when other's decide......

              Dedicated to all the Unstoppable's who are going to reach their destinations very soon including me😁....