HER

 Never thought this would be such painful.I always thought  this would never happen to me but it does...after I fell for someone who eventually made me go crazyy for her…

Never have I had a chance to talk to her, meet her and express my feelings but tried to make courage and tell her even though I know that she would never accept me..All the days I try myself not to look to her social media or get to know things about her but, cannot stop myself from doing Sooooooo…. I'm her good friend although she states that I always had feelings for her from day one…

I keep asking myself what is that which makes you go crazy about her and eventually I end up smiling myself because I have no reasonzz and she had been that special person to me….The best part of her is even when she know I like her she's has never stopped talking to me even when she never liked me……… N i was to a conclusion that it's the end of her in my life but to be true it's never to be...Every time I wish to forget her I end up thinking a lot more about her..

In this fast moving world expressing her your feelings in not a big thing but I never had the courage to do so because the heart always reminded me "Arey Chod-dho yaar yea kabhi nahi ho paayegaaa".................

And today while I write this I'm still thinking of her not that she would accept me but I never had a chance to talk to her…….

And you think why do I write instead making an attempt to talk to her I know something's in life never tend to happen and the best way to express or come out of sorrows is by writing your views in the form of words---- These lines in her words….

What_People really matters...🙆

 

All this while I was thinking does people really matter in your life and does they have any importance in your life. I found that it's actually the people that matters the most…

There are many kinds of people that you come across in your life.Some are really closer to your heart, people who are supportive,encouraging,inspirational,motivational and some who are never fond of you some who always ditches you being behind everytime..

People who are supportive to you in every matter are not easy to find and once found you never want to miss them at any circumstance but there's a time when u need to let them goo..

One gets to learn a lot from others...The most important thing I've learnt is that people are always trying to throw you down but remember those are the positives u can get because ure always trying urself to be better than him and which indeed motivates you to become the very besttt…

There's always one thing my dad always say me "Never compare yourself with people who are better or bigger than u and compare yourself with people who are lower than you"...Might be my father is right because we will be stronger when compared with people who are below than you, but what I think is that when u compare ureself with the best you're always trying to reach them which is not possible by the way butty u're always trying to reach them which is most important…...That makes u even better..

It's always better that u're surrounded by bad people when you are to learn something from them which u doesn't want to do in life… and the ways of doing good are always found…

                      

*The Secret admirer..*

This has been longtime coming and indeed a special one…..

The backdrop of the story happend in one of the corporate offices in Hyderabad.

Well this is a story about a guy who was like crazy about someone whom he saw the very first time.

He doesn't know whether it was like love at first sight or he likes her or he's had crush on her but the moment he saw her he's become a greatest admirer of her.

It was like potrait mode that happens to him and there's no one expect her that he could see..

Haha!! he's got so many of his colleagues whom he could explain everything about what's going on within him and his feelings for her and everybody were supportive to him.some would help him in finding her name too😜.. the craziest thing was he used to go to dinner at the exact time she comes to dinner not that he wld check social apps but the time daily when he used to see her coming to dinner with her colleagues..The only thing that haunted him was how to approach her and start conversation wid her which he knew that would never happen as he never had the courage to do so…

And one day suddenly after finishing his dinner when he n his friend were on a walk he suddenly saw her with her friend and at that moment his heartbeat wasso much faster and he just stopped looking at her...that was the most funniest incident even today when he remembers that one magical moment to demonstrate for him in his life…

And slowly however by god's grace she started talking to him..(Note:Never had been a direct conversation untill now )it's just through social platform that they had their conversations….One thing that guy ever felt was the women like her whom he admired or loved would ever talk to him and even if he approached her to say Hi!! how her reaction would be..and that thing in his mind always stopped him from having one little conversation with her..

And talking about the women shez one beautiful women and has a very unique standards that she sets for herself with always having her head high and the way she presents herself in front of others makes u feel just staring at her the whole day...if not the whole life..This guy used to say me that he just wanted to hear the word Hi..!!from her and that was all he needed from her...It would be stupid if I say that he wanted to stay in that organization na The 🏢 only because he could see her atleast once in a day….Such was his feeling for her…

Well the question is does anyone express their feelings to someone eventhough they know what the reply would be from the other side...But i have an utmost respect towards this guy to express his feelings to her eventhough when he knows she would never accept him…..

Well the final verdict is not every guy is the same..Not everybody just loves someone for sex or appearance..there are even some guys who even fear to approach a girl whom they like or love so much...I don't want to criticize any one but just wanted to tell women that NOT EVERY GUY is the SAME….

Well it might be that people who read this wants the story to end the better way but u never know what "DESTINY HAS IN STORES FOR THE GUY"..

Thank you,

Pavan D.V.N

"BEING ALONE REJOICES"

Let me start like this ..

How many of u like being alone..???

Not  many wants to be….but the reality is there's a moment in one's life where everybody feels that it is rather important to be alone than being engaged yourself in the most complicated relationships in life…….

Being in other's company always compromises you and end up doing things what others have wished for and not what you ve really wished for….

Being alone here does not mean sitting in the dark empty room crying,not speaking to others or thinking about all that has happend in your life till now..

It means to be *Being with oneself* and enjoying their own company..

"It's rather important to enjoy your own company than enjoyin the company of others"

It is..!!when you start realising that you are most important to you and start seeing life in a beautiful way and start enjoyin it  in your very way…

When you start to enjoy being alone, you’ll gain a greater perspective for your own emotions. You’ll create a deeper understanding of what makes you happy, what upsets you, and what saddens you..

I believe "Time spent alone" is the most valuable time in one's life which helps you in being more productive and focus on doing things which makes your soul happy…

"Some one to hold...."

It's been long time since I have written something and hope you  like it...

Let me start like this I was watching this movie"A beautiful mind" where the protagonist after spending hours of time in research and solving codes and finding different theories fall sick in kind a way where he imagines people who aren't really existed..

It was his wife who helped him and made him believe that he eventually can come out of that sickness and then he would be a normal man again which eventually lead him for noble prize winner..

Now the point I want to make here is there's always someone to hold your hand (#Supportive) when you are going through the difficult phases of life..It might be your parents,a friend, your girlfriend, boyfriend and even sometimes a stranger….It's like someone is waiting for the opportunity to help you..it kind of feels crazy but in reality it is..No matter what relation you hold with the other person when u feel that I can share my feelings and phases which I have gone through that's when you feel "yeah there's someone to hold!!" Which by the way makes you feel happy 😊 and lead to positive actions which indeed leads you to glory..

                                

                                        Thanks..

                                               Pavan.DVN

            

That feeling of Lost...

This is what my next writing is all about ..... "That feeling of being lost"

Well life's a very strange one.You get to meet people who once become very close to you , be with you and all of a sudden let you goo...When such people leave you then you kind of feel that it is the end of the world and suddenly starts behaving the way u haven't till now..

Being dejected by someone doesn't mean the end of everything..Be positive and make sure that you are not struck by the incident and move forward in life as there are many opportunities waiting for you to grab..well to be true that moments we spend with them will always strike you and its not an easy thing to let them go off...but how long would you always keep thinking about them...??
There should be an end to it

when you are into someone you always feel kind of to talk with them, be with them but at end of the day remember you are never accepted by them to be travelling along with them ...

There's no such harm when you kind of go crazy about someone and disclosing the fact that you love someone.Accepting and rejecting you is completely their perspective and one need to respect one's opinion..

One should always remember that it's us what matters the most and live life as we always ve wanted to....

Always remember when someone leaves you there is always a chance of someone better coming into your life who further makes your life complete....

                                                                                              Pavan....

Stop caring about what other's think.

I always wanted to write something like this but never found ways to begin..

 To start off we all live in a stupid society where we find restrictions imposed on most of the things..

So i started questioning myself what role does others/society play in one's own  life ..??

But, do you think one should really care about such people??

At instances, people give importance to other's views rather than your's which kind of makes you feel frustrated.

People are always worried about what others think rather than doing what they find best for themselves and finding happiness themselves..

There is always a fear that runs in your mind that if i does something what others think .This kind of thinking always disheartens oneself..

 "you ought to rather do what you really wish for, there is nothing  to do with this fuckin world.."

I every bit of life there is someone involved  who rather supports you in moving forward in life or always strive to bring you down in front of others..Do not  get discouraged by what people does to you but find positives from them.

Do not get demoralized by what people think about you and start living life which u haven't lived  for all these days and changing  yourself  for others because its your life and only you can live the way you want to live..

Do not give room for others in your life.Don't try to live life to impress others....The right people will definitely  meet you when the time comes.Wait for the moment to happen as someday it should  eventually happen.

There's only one life and try to live the way you wished to.Do what moves you and makes you smile and the ''GOOD" always follow you....😍😍