Saturday, August 27, 2022

A Tale of Love Stories (in my terms)

 Firstly, I am not a love guru or someone who has a great knowledge about what is love or had so many love stories to share my experiences...It's just some of those stories which I have come across in my last 12 years....

To start with this story belongs to me. An average looking guy just being in his teens and slowly starting to think about his future goals and ambitions..you got it right it's in my X standard that for the first time I've come across a love letter (Beautifully written in her terms)..Till that day I used to watch love letters only in movies but when I received for the first time I truely have no words..there was anxiety filled with excitement knowing that there is someone who likes you (#Haha🤗)..then I became a hero for my self and in typical hero's language I said "Sorry Sister😎..I am not into this thing and want to focus on my career and dreams..."..Later exactly after 9 years I received the same response from the person whom I loved but this time in Heroin's language...They say what you did to others will come back to you...Karma is a real bitch😔...

The next one is about one of my MBA mates who struggled to pass atleast 1 subject in his semesters have passed a police training examination that too in his first attempt clearing all his exams and physical tests only because his lady love asked him to do so inorder to get married....May be love has the power to do miracles... Congratulations brother on your successful marriage with your loved partner...

Next about all my important friend who tried 1 year almost to stand infront of her...Later made her realise how important she is to him and eventually found her love....When all things were going good and both families accepted for their marriage there comes the real villian in the story..His lady love's brother who promised him that he would make them together has eventually made his sister marry someone else instead of the person whom she loved....Villians do exist and this is not a film it's a true story my dear!💔..

Here comes the final story where they loved each other so truely and eventually got married in a private ceremony.. There was no acceptance from the boy side.. Now this might get emotional but please hang on a bit.. Parents have so many dreams on their children..Some parents really wish their children to achieve what they couldn't achieve because of their own reasons and wish everyday that their child achieves that, plans their future that after their children get settled they would lead a good life which they couldn't for all these years, plans for their marriage et al... (Every parent but for my story I have used the term some)..When such parent listens to a news that his son has married someone without his consent you can literally feel what the parent has gone through... He wanted to commit suicide (the father) when he heard such news.. You can feel the pain being in their shoes...Even after 10 years of marriage the son hasn't slept a single night peacefully.. He himself (the son) went to commit suicide because life became terrible and he wasn't in a position to bear her anymore..He cannot give divorce because she won't let him to do so, he is like a doll in her hands and do all the actions how she want him to do so..Sad scenes...😥

He made his father suffer for his actions (he only lived 8 years and taking rest in heaven and is free from all these) and the son had to suffer for life long from her till his last breath..because he has no other option..

#Love is unpredictable..Sometimes it does good to you and sometimes it does bad..Sometimes it gives you the power to achieve something and sometimes it makes you loose everything...🕺🤷🤩🤯...



Saturday, July 23, 2022

My Part Definition for life😉

 All this while for about 25 years I was still in search of that damn thing what makes me feel happy what is that I really wanted to do...What career to choose? Whether you are happy with what you are doing? Is this what you really want? a no.of questions that runs through my mind everyday every minute....and it still continues till my last breathe because humans never gets satisfied with what they have or what they really want and I'm also one of them who keeps searching answers for all my questions daily....Still did not figured out but may be partially until the day when I saw my mom smiling and that's usual because we all see our parents smiling everytime but don't know why but that day it felt something unusual within me and I just thought how beautiful it is to see them laughing everytime...Something really shook me off just seeing them enjoying that very moment and then I understood that there's nothing great in this world than seeing them smiling, making every moment special for them and I felt that was what i really wanted in life may be a kind of a booster and answer for many of my questions.... Might be there are some changes in what i do really in future, no matter what the fuckin world thinks it's always your parents the priority and it's your meaning of birth no matter what you do how you do to make them smiling and enjoying every moment.. My mom always say we should never say thank you to parents but I promise that I won't let you down anytime...Thank you❤️

Tuesday, May 3, 2022

Unstoppable


 Well to begin with this was the title of one of my colleagues in my new organisation..I am sorry that I have taken your title and used it for my writing today..This one is not about me..This is for all who strives to make big one day..may be some have already made it and others on the verge of making it..Let me give an example of my self. My father did not have any money and his family condition was in such a state that they were not able to make their ends meet..He did not study but have always told me and my sister that if he could have he would become a government employee..Me and my sister used to laugh why he is talking all this rubbish because in our generation because of high competition getting a government job is not that easy..But whatever we do he always asks only one thing from us that he wants us both to be working for a government organisation..May be he could have chose his son to become a tailor as he is..and as advised by people but there was only one word that came from his mouth "The way I suffered I don't want my children to be suffering the same".I really did not understand why he spending so much amounts for his children's studies even though when he knows that he cannot afford their studies...I keep questioning my self the same everytime..but I don't have an answer to this..May be the trust that he has in children that one day they will achieve what he could not achieve in his life..Truely speaking it took him more than 10 years to learn tailoring..may be I could have completed my 10 years of education by the time he learnt his work..He did not have proper food, proper clothes, proper home to live.. but he never gave up..If I am standing infront of you today that's all because of him..but his dream is yet to be fulfilled...That was just an example because there are many people who are unstoppable in their own ways some may be in studies, some in sports and some in other.. I was always thinking why I am getting such bosses and Team leads everywhere i goo..be it whatever they think of you no matter what they say you always keep a belief that you are "UNSTOPPABLE"..because one can only stop if one decides and not when other's decide......


              Dedicated to all the Unstoppable's who are going to reach their destinations very soon including me😁....

Saturday, March 5, 2022

A Movie lover

 Don't get me wrong by seeing the title...I am not a movie reviewer or someone who is looking for making a career in Movies....It's just that I wanted to share my views about how a 1 or 2.30 hours of movie play an important role in your life....The feeling is just nostalgic... From a person who used to watch a movie atleast once in a year to a person who's willing to spend his time watching a movie I have come a long way...This sounds crazy if i tell I used to watch atleast 2 movies in my 9 hours of office time in my previous organization during WFH😄😬.... All thanks to my buddy who suggested me to watch movies thereby creating more anxiety in me to watch those by explaining the summary of the movie😜..Then there is movie for any situation in your life according to your mood or situation....The genre, language, cast doesn't matter as long as you enjoy the whole time watching themm.. Some have really bought a lot of changes in me personally and I figured out that there are many people who also have experienced the same like the way I feel today...People would always tell to watch this...that etccc etc ...... I never thought someone's words would have such great influence in me that I had bought my self a Netflix account just to watch a movie which I've never done before....Such was that impact on mee which made me ask them to suggest movies😉.....One last thing I can tell whole heartedly is that a right movie at a right time changes everythinggg....


                      Thank you all the directors for bringing your thoughts into movies and inspiring us....


                                From one of your many movie lovers❤️