What if ..??

 

Well, it's been long time writing something and ideally this one is from my thoughts..

 It always raised a question in my mind What iff ?🤔

What if you can travel back to time as shown in Hollywood movies and relieve those beautiful moments..??

What if you can tell your dad that this is the profession that I would choose to build my career upon..?

What if you can go back to time and say sorry to persons who are hurt because of you ??

What if you accept the girl who is crazy about you at that time and how your life could ve been now ??

What if you have no plans in life and enjoying the moments as they come your way ??

What if the things which your not supposed to be done and actually are done because of which you are worried even these days ??🙄😔

What if you could ve completed the full GTA game ??

What if you never involved anyone to be more important than you in your life ??

What if you could've understood that money is the only mean and relatives visit you only when your wealthy enough??

What if you could ve friends and enjoyed moments with them rather being alone with you for the past 25 years ??

What if you have not met people who are supportive and encouraging in personal and professional life ?

What if you are never heard of your mother saying god provides difficulties to people who does good ??

What if people are more concerned about other's lives rather than theirs ?

What if there is no Caste reservation system ?

What if there is no politics or politicians ? In general and in your corporate life (Note: very important)

What if the rightful people gets the rightful jobs ??

What if the word "Hardwork always pays off" always be true not only for few but those who really work hard ??

Finally, but not the least….

What if I can hit my manager (name not be mentioned) ??

What if ? What if ? What if ???

What if I never had this question what if ??😂😂

HER

 Never thought this would be such painful.I always thought  this would never happen to me but it does...after I fell for someone who eventually made me go crazyy for her…

Never have I had a chance to talk to her, meet her and express my feelings but tried to make courage and tell her even though I know that she would never accept me..All the days I try myself not to look to her social media or get to know things about her but, cannot stop myself from doing Sooooooo…. I'm her good friend although she states that I always had feelings for her from day one…

I keep asking myself what is that which makes you go crazy about her and eventually I end up smiling myself because I have no reasonzz and she had been that special person to me….The best part of her is even when she know I like her she's has never stopped talking to me even when she never liked me……… N i was to a conclusion that it's the end of her in my life but to be true it's never to be...Every time I wish to forget her I end up thinking a lot more about her..

In this fast moving world expressing her your feelings in not a big thing but I never had the courage to do so because the heart always reminded me "Arey Chod-dho yaar yea kabhi nahi ho paayegaaa".................

And today while I write this I'm still thinking of her not that she would accept me but I never had a chance to talk to her…….

And you think why do I write instead making an attempt to talk to her I know something's in life never tend to happen and the best way to express or come out of sorrows is by writing your views in the form of words---- These lines in her words….

What_People really matters...🙆

 

All this while I was thinking does people really matter in your life and does they have any importance in your life. I found that it's actually the people that matters the most…

There are many kinds of people that you come across in your life.Some are really closer to your heart, people who are supportive,encouraging,inspirational,motivational and some who are never fond of you some who always ditches you being behind everytime..

People who are supportive to you in every matter are not easy to find and once found you never want to miss them at any circumstance but there's a time when u need to let them goo..

One gets to learn a lot from others...The most important thing I've learnt is that people are always trying to throw you down but remember those are the positives u can get because ure always trying urself to be better than him and which indeed motivates you to become the very besttt…

There's always one thing my dad always say me "Never compare yourself with people who are better or bigger than u and compare yourself with people who are lower than you"...Might be my father is right because we will be stronger when compared with people who are below than you, but what I think is that when u compare ureself with the best you're always trying to reach them which is not possible by the way butty u're always trying to reach them which is most important…...That makes u even better..

It's always better that u're surrounded by bad people when you are to learn something from them which u doesn't want to do in life… and the ways of doing good are always found…

                      

*The Secret admirer..*

This has been longtime coming and indeed a special one…..

The backdrop of the story happend in one of the corporate offices in Hyderabad.

Well this is a story about a guy who was like crazy about someone whom he saw the very first time.

He doesn't know whether it was like love at first sight or he likes her or he's had crush on her but the moment he saw her he's become a greatest admirer of her.

It was like potrait mode that happens to him and there's no one expect her that he could see..

Haha!! he's got so many of his colleagues whom he could explain everything about what's going on within him and his feelings for her and everybody were supportive to him.some would help him in finding her name too😜.. the craziest thing was he used to go to dinner at the exact time she comes to dinner not that he wld check social apps but the time daily when he used to see her coming to dinner with her colleagues..The only thing that haunted him was how to approach her and start conversation wid her which he knew that would never happen as he never had the courage to do so…

And one day suddenly after finishing his dinner when he n his friend were on a walk he suddenly saw her with her friend and at that moment his heartbeat wasso much faster and he just stopped looking at her...that was the most funniest incident even today when he remembers that one magical moment to demonstrate for him in his life…

And slowly however by god's grace she started talking to him..(Note:Never had been a direct conversation untill now )it's just through social platform that they had their conversations….One thing that guy ever felt was the women like her whom he admired or loved would ever talk to him and even if he approached her to say Hi!! how her reaction would be..and that thing in his mind always stopped him from having one little conversation with her..

And talking about the women shez one beautiful women and has a very unique standards that she sets for herself with always having her head high and the way she presents herself in front of others makes u feel just staring at her the whole day...if not the whole life..This guy used to say me that he just wanted to hear the word Hi..!!from her and that was all he needed from her...It would be stupid if I say that he wanted to stay in that organization na The 🏢 only because he could see her atleast once in a day….Such was his feeling for her…

Well the question is does anyone express their feelings to someone eventhough they know what the reply would be from the other side...But i have an utmost respect towards this guy to express his feelings to her eventhough when he knows she would never accept him…..

Well the final verdict is not every guy is the same..Not everybody just loves someone for sex or appearance..there are even some guys who even fear to approach a girl whom they like or love so much...I don't want to criticize any one but just wanted to tell women that NOT EVERY GUY is the SAME….

Well it might be that people who read this wants the story to end the better way but u never know what "DESTINY HAS IN STORES FOR THE GUY"..

Thank you,

Pavan D.V.N

"BEING ALONE REJOICES"

Let me start like this ..

How many of u like being alone..???

Not  many wants to be….but the reality is there's a moment in one's life where everybody feels that it is rather important to be alone than being engaged yourself in the most complicated relationships in life…….

Being in other's company always compromises you and end up doing things what others have wished for and not what you ve really wished for….

Being alone here does not mean sitting in the dark empty room crying,not speaking to others or thinking about all that has happend in your life till now..

It means to be *Being with oneself* and enjoying their own company..

"It's rather important to enjoy your own company than enjoyin the company of others"

It is..!!when you start realising that you are most important to you and start seeing life in a beautiful way and start enjoyin it  in your very way…

When you start to enjoy being alone, you’ll gain a greater perspective for your own emotions. You’ll create a deeper understanding of what makes you happy, what upsets you, and what saddens you..

I believe "Time spent alone" is the most valuable time in one's life which helps you in being more productive and focus on doing things which makes your soul happy…

"Some one to hold...."

It's been long time since I have written something and hope you  like it...

Let me start like this I was watching this movie"A beautiful mind" where the protagonist after spending hours of time in research and solving codes and finding different theories fall sick in kind a way where he imagines people who aren't really existed..

It was his wife who helped him and made him believe that he eventually can come out of that sickness and then he would be a normal man again which eventually lead him for noble prize winner..

Now the point I want to make here is there's always someone to hold your hand (#Supportive) when you are going through the difficult phases of life..It might be your parents,a friend, your girlfriend, boyfriend and even sometimes a stranger….It's like someone is waiting for the opportunity to help you..it kind of feels crazy but in reality it is..No matter what relation you hold with the other person when u feel that I can share my feelings and phases which I have gone through that's when you feel "yeah there's someone to hold!!" Which by the way makes you feel happy 😊 and lead to positive actions which indeed leads you to glory..

                                

                                        Thanks..

                                               Pavan.DVN

            

That feeling of Lost...

This is what my next writing is all about ..... "That feeling of being lost"

Well life's a very strange one.You get to meet people who once become very close to you , be with you and all of a sudden let you goo...When such people leave you then you kind of feel that it is the end of the world and suddenly starts behaving the way u haven't till now..

Being dejected by someone doesn't mean the end of everything..Be positive and make sure that you are not struck by the incident and move forward in life as there are many opportunities waiting for you to grab..well to be true that moments we spend with them will always strike you and its not an easy thing to let them go off...but how long would you always keep thinking about them...??
There should be an end to it

when you are into someone you always feel kind of to talk with them, be with them but at end of the day remember you are never accepted by them to be travelling along with them ...

There's no such harm when you kind of go crazy about someone and disclosing the fact that you love someone.Accepting and rejecting you is completely their perspective and one need to respect one's opinion..

One should always remember that it's us what matters the most and live life as we always ve wanted to....

Always remember when someone leaves you there is always a chance of someone better coming into your life who further makes your life complete....

                                                                                              Pavan....

Stop caring about what other's think.

I always wanted to write something like this but never found ways to begin..

 To start off we all live in a stupid society where we find restrictions imposed on most of the things..

So i started questioning myself what role does others/society play in one's own  life ..??

But, do you think one should really care about such people??

At instances, people give importance to other's views rather than your's which kind of makes you feel frustrated.

People are always worried about what others think rather than doing what they find best for themselves and finding happiness themselves..

There is always a fear that runs in your mind that if i does something what others think .This kind of thinking always disheartens oneself..

 "you ought to rather do what you really wish for, there is nothing  to do with this fuckin world.."

I every bit of life there is someone involved  who rather supports you in moving forward in life or always strive to bring you down in front of others..Do not  get discouraged by what people does to you but find positives from them.

Do not get demoralized by what people think about you and start living life which u haven't lived  for all these days and changing  yourself  for others because its your life and only you can live the way you want to live..

Do not give room for others in your life.Don't try to live life to impress others....The right people will definitely  meet you when the time comes.Wait for the moment to happen as someday it should  eventually happen.

There's only one life and try to live the way you wished to.Do what moves you and makes you smile and the ''GOOD" always follow you....😍😍

The Incident..

As the title suggests its all about the incident that happend few years ago that shook me off.
There is an market held at my place (BHEL) at the end of every month  which we call it "MAYABAZAR".I came across this name since my childhood but never got to understand why it is called by that name as i become older then i realized that they make people fools by selling products which does not last more than a month(...Hahahahaa) sometimes they last more than months too.
One day my sister took me to mayabazar to purchase (its a girl thing.....) she is busy in checking bangles, ear rings etc. etc.. i was wondering and thinking when this purchase would be completed.
Then this incident happend i saw a father along with his son bargaining  dress for his son at one of the sellers, the father only had 300rs with him as a whole and the cost of dress is 350rs the son wanted the dress so badly may be he liked the dress so much that he was continuously pulling his father's pyjama for the dress it was like more than half an hour they bargained for the dress to give them for 300rs which the seller never gave instead there was a word uttered from seller's mouth ''Paisa nahi hai toh kyu aatha rey humara time waste karne ke liye" and they both (father and son) moved away from the seller. Till this day i remember the eyes of  the little boy where i realized that he so badly needed the dress.I went to father and asked ''Uncle there are many more shops in the market and if not that dress you could've purchased him some other dress". Then he replied, after seeing many dresses in other shops they've come to that shop and because his son liked the dress he wanted to purchase and give it to him. The other thing what the man told was that 300rs what he had with him will serve their family for 3 days..That answer really shook me off , even then the father wanted to purchase the dress to see happiness on the face of  his son. That "incident" reminded me that i was so lucky to have such parents who never said NO anytime whenever i asked anything from them..

The main reason why i wanted to share this was u see these days what are the incidents that are taking place between children and parents..Parents strive  themselves very hard to earn you good living thinking you are their only world and when you reach positions you never care about them.
The only happiness what you can give parents is spending little time and sharing important moments with them..I heard a saying that because "god cannot take care of everyone for which he has given parents to take care of ourselves". So thank god everyday for making us a part of this wonderful world (The family., the relations etc..)

IT'S A CORPORATE THING.......

This is my very first Blog..And it doesn't get much better to start my first blog with some interesting corporate things..Firstly it makes you crazy till u get into those big buildings.Seeing those massive structures then all of sudden when u get inside that crowd makes u wonder ure not alone here...

Finally that anxiety moments when u get  offer letter to your mail and you feel as if there is a massive thing  accomplished( yeah.....finally i did it )

And the real story begins here....(Remember its all in my less than two years of experience..)

That first day moments meeting your new colleagues those massive rooms etc... makes u feel WOW for few days. After completing all your process trainings etc.. etc... the real test starts.. the entirely new timings (Mine are completely night shifts..) that sleepless mornings where at the begining u feel those 4-5 hrs of  sleep is entirely sufficient (which is not usually as prescribed by Doctors)..Even the dreams are of your trainings in office😂😂...

Soon after the days are gone by when u are aware of what you actually does it feels like all the years of my education is for this what i am doing now 😒😒 you kind of feel pity on yourself..
But the one thing that got me going aggresive towards this corporate thing is the dirty politics..May be this world is entirely new to me and i am lucky to have gone to such project where everything is inside is a dirty politics thing (words used my sister "Chamchagiri''....) which plays a crucial role in ones professional career in order to get things done....
when you see there is one idiot then immediately another one comes and tell u " I am bigger idiot than anyone here.."😆
But this less than two years have taught me many lessons of how one should be in the world of corporate..
If you are being as you are than you are not good from your employer point of view..
Your employer asks you not to stay punctual to your work timings if ure gonna succeed in your career. Say hello to your employer when u login and BYE when you logout from your shift  or else you are pointed out in front of whole team at team meetings..The day when you brokeup infront of whole team when entire team is just a spectator  in between you and employer then you realize this is what exactly not needed of you...At that moment you realize what massive mistake you ve done and the future consequences you need to face.. U know you have been targeted but the thing is you are on your own and there's no one to support you..Things got massive when the employer starts to involve in your personal things..questions you about your personal trips, does not like his team members to have smiles which kind of feels as if someone has kicked his ass...the divide n policy rule but utters stupid words of working as a team.The "spoons" and their peculiar actions...finally when it all mattered the ratings when you are good enough for moving to next level your employer compares you with the newest folks and asks you to learn from them which at that moment felt like ripping his ass off but you can do nothing as it is his time that is running and not yours and wait for your time which eventually does not come until you resign😤😡😝

Then the massive thing ''WFH" which eventually changed the entire work system which eventually  changed the definition of the word..
That person(No name mentioned....) talked to employee the words which he should have never uttered..Frankly speaking that moment it felt like breaking his head but as usual as is done all these days just drop your head down and walking away from itt....

May be this kind of things feels awkward but as a young professional just starting to take steps in his professional career this feels massive ....

My kind of suggestion to young professionals is you  get into these kind of things in your initial stages. Make yourself clear that one day u will need to surpass all these things if u really wanna achieve something and reach to the higher levels of your professional career..

Always believe that there is nothing extrordinary things you should do in order to be recognized and get recognized... Follow your heart and believe yourself to get things done in your own way.May be not here but somewhere you are definitely recognized.

Finally one thing i always believe is that there is no need of someone recognizing your worth its you who should know your worth and how important you are to yourself ....